Friday, June 27, 2008

Okay, that's it. I did not think I would feel this way at 20. You know, soothing hatrid. And there's nothing I can do because.. its complicated and I got into it myself.
So magnetron thinks I took things way seriously and asked him to change. and so.. he asked said "fuck it" and stopped talking to me.

Now, maybe its just a pity that he's immature or maybe I could wring his neck and break it and throw it. I left the conversation we had at a difference of opinion and did the mature thing. Let go. How fucking immature would you have to be to complicate things further and scapegoat? first things first, I did not as him to change, I barely know him. All i asked him to do was have a decent conversation.

If he's feeling frisky, he doesn't have to tell the world. Even if they've interrupted him at the wrong time.. (in his words). I'm not talking about the "talk to girls politely" shit. That's just sexist. What I mean is you don't have to tell me about how horny you're feeling when i ask you "whats up" even if you are.... And its not like this is the first time he's been... err, very vocal about his thoughts. So If I had to take any of it seriously, I could've with a zillion other things. Its just, that night, I reached saturation point. Why the fuck should he tell me anything related to how horny he was, if he was just answering my "whats up" question and not playing on ulterior motives?

And if he was playing on ulterior motives.. i had to right to ask him t move on to a decent conversation.. or stop talking to him for good. Which I did... due to a different opinion/insight. Where the fuck did "me taking it too seriously" come in?? Urgh, 21 year old horny bastards. I did not ask him to change anything about himself... and if he thinks maintaining a normal comversation is not a part of him.. then its good that we stopped talking. The least I expected was him to not come to stupid immature conclusions about that conversation we had... and tell our common friend about it. When I told her, I was rather mature about it.

Why the fuck do I always meet the bloody immature assholes? That's it. I pronounce all 21 year old, malu, engineering students as bastards.
Infact all men excluding Dad and brothers.

P.s- If he can be immature, so can I.
p.p.s- forgive the cribbing, I had no other outlet. This is by far the most frustating thing ever. And I though I had the last word.

19 comments:

Coconut Chutney said...

They're all frickin same! They never can make up their damn minds.

Anonymous said...

What the hell! You are calling me a bastard after the very sound advice I offered? What a thankless world! I think I should drop off everything and go to the mountains. Sigh!

Don't shout at me but I think some (tiny segment) blame lies with you. I am sure the guy is not going around being 'frisky' with all the girls. You must have said/done something which would made him categorize you as 'possible outlet for friskiness'.

-Ok

P.S. You can locate me in the Himalayas next time.

go-phish said...

correct me if im wrong...but isnt he 'frisky' with everyone? (barring men) and the only difference is in the way people react to him???....

S said...

CC: yeah, you're so right!

OK: go on, give me more reasons to call you names. Yes, pugsie, he's the same with every girl. And he moves forward with the kinda response he gets from them. Maybe he moved a little to forward with me and Sh, because we flirted with him.. not because we yearned for his love, but because it ws fun. (don't give me the you asked for it bullshit, there's a HUGE difference between asking for it, and flirting around and generally making good convo. When men do it, its good fun, but when women do it, they're "asking for it" right?.... bastards)

see this is why Im single. Its soo hard to find a man out there who deosn't take the bloody wrong sign everytime, and is mature enough to strike a balance. The world is filled with "girls should be like this" sexist bastards and horny bastards like magnetrons.

S said...

... and a rare few in between who're either gay or married.

Okie Dokie said...

This is such a small thing to get all worked up over:) You are still suck a kid.

S said...

You know, Ok.. when you get to meet people like this all the time.. especially guys you think you can date, and they turn out like this.. it does become a little irritating.

Its like all the guys I've met can easily be categorised into categories I never want to be associated with. Including you.

silly billy:) said...

u knew al this all along and it wud hav been betta had u stopped talkin to him way bak wen he d said other similar horny things..anyway..glad u ve made up ur mind..its never too late..al i can say(rather hope fr is)tht u stick to this decision..its definitely the right one..
ps-good guys will come along:)

Coconut Chutney said...

My favourite technique of pissing a guy off is to totally ignore him, pretend like he never exists. Completely, just stop talking altogether.
this kind of treatment is much too much for the primitive male mind. So much so that it could possibly melt. I've warned you. ;)

Anyhow, all easier said than done, I find it incredibly hard to ignore my ex, you know even though we parted on the whole 'oh-it-was-inevitable-too-much-of-long-distance-very-hard-blah-lets-be-friends' crap. Which is crap because he's pretty boring if I can't flirt with him. Like, I can only talk about cricket for 3 minutes!
But even then, those gtalk sessions where we're online at the same time is such torture!

And I have to rant it all out here cause ex-dearest is a regular reader of my blog too! wtf!

K i think i've exceeded my limit over here. Men, I tell you. They can be such...men!!
:D

Anonymous said...

See it is not new:). You can't throw a brick without beaning a girl who would have, at some point in her life, expressed her desire of not ever seeing my magnificient bean or hearing my melodious baritone again. I shall chalk you down as another success of the patented Ram's Charm (healthy in doses and dangeorus when overused).



Much like Pontius Pilate who renounced Jesus thinking he was evil, you have put up a 'we dont accept men' sign. My only advice to you is to wait for a few years till men get past the stage when they realize not everything in their sight is a conduit for their sexual energy.


P.S. Do I strike a Wodehouse note?

P.P.S. I am curious to know what you think about me. Sexist?

go-phish said...

"You can't throw a brick without beaning a girl who would have.." very Wodehouse indeed :)

ps-'Does that stage really come?' asks the cynic

S said...

CC: yeah, I know exactly what you mean, which is why I changed my blog name... nosy bastards want to read your blog also... the only place that you cant rant!

OK: listen, frankly... after what you said... I think we're long lost siblings. Really, we couldn't be more alike in self-assessing. I can deal with you being sexist, yes you are. And I'm generally a very calm person, you can ask pugsie, but some things really piss me off and get to me, which is when I resort to abuses and impulsive conclusions. It happens very rarely.
You're, in a nutshell, a lot like me... which is good :)

Yeah, you're right about the men part as well. There will come a time. There's no denying the fact that men are immature, untill shown otherwise.

Pugsie: beta, no problem, bhagwan humaari dil ki baat sun le ga.

*tee hee*

Scribblers Inc said...

oh...ok...I think this is not the best time to ask for some ketchup for maggi is it? :0

Scribblers Inc.

Anonymous said...

oh fuck. who the fuck was magnefuckingtron anyway?

http://smellypinkcat.blogspot.com/search?q=magnetron
after that, I know exactly how "magnetron" works.

good riddance.

S said...

Scribbler: I hate ketchup in my maggi! total waste!

Anon: good riddance indeed, but who're you?

Scribblers Inc said...

thoda ketchup is ok da!!:(

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